Wednesday, December 31, 2014

It was a very good year...


Happy New Year's Eve! Can you believe 2014 is already over? We say this every year, don't we? Where does the time go? Unless, of course, it was a bad year. Then we say, good riddance! Couldn't come fast enough! How are you feeling about your year? Are you sad to leave 2014 behind to the discarded calendars and Facebook summaries? Or is 2015 going to be your year and you are ready to dive in with all the gusto of a hungry dog in a pool filled with Milk Bones?

Pool party!

It's been a long year for this guy





















I'm a little mixed on the whole New Year thing. Well, no, that's not true. I am very excited for 2015! This past year has been amazing, but man has it been crazy! I finished my Master's thesis, graduated, ran a 10 mile race, got married, went to Europe, bought a house and started a new job. And those are only the big things! I'm looking forward to a little quiet and normalcy, if I can even remember what those things are any more.

And yet, even though I am craving the quiet and routine that has been absent from my life for so many years (did it ever exist?), I know it won't be long before I am daydreaming about this crazy year where so much changed ALL AT THE SAME TIME. Maybe I should have spread some of the joy out a bit?



Nah. That wouldn't be very me. I am a person of extremes, not moderation. I want all the joy and happiness together so they can add up to a greater joy than the sum total of its parts. I also want all the sadness and anger at once so I can get it out of the way and then remember how strong I must have been to get through all the shit that happened that one time way back when. Now I'm ready for a large dose of boring so in a couple months when summer comes around I will be bursting at the seams to get some excitement going and maybe have some wild adventures. 

Summer, I'll be waiting

Among other things I did this year, starting this blog was one! June 23 was the first blog post on Sheridan's To-do List and now this will be my 23 post and we will soon be over 1,050 views! And most of them weren't even me! OK, a lot of them probably were, at least in the beginning. But now I just have you to thank, dear readers. So, thank you for tuning in the past six months! On my 2015 to-do list (coming next time) one of the top items is to post every week. I'm going to do it. I swear. I promise! I'll try...
My first to-do list!
There was one thing I didn't do this year. And the funny thing is, it was the whole reason I started this blog! I mentioned it a few times, but in case you forgot, I was supposed to run the Philly Half-Marathon last month. And I totally DID NOT. Actually, of the four people I was signed up with, only one did it! Crystal, this blog post is dedicated to you. Congratulations on finishing your first half marathon! I am so proud of you for working towards your goal even when the rest of us dropped out.

Balloon flowers to celebrate!
Am I bummed not to have completed the race? Not really. I felt bad backing out when I had joined with the intention of running with my friends, but clearly that did not stop Crystal. But my training fell right off the wagon when the house thing started. It's not a good excuse, but my heart just wasn't in training with so much going on. I was still running, just not enough, and I didn't want to hurt myself and prevent working towards my general fitness goals. I know, excuses, excuses. 

It did have one great result, though, and that is this blog! I had originally planned on starting it to track my progress training for the half-marathon. But that seemed too finite a goal. What would I keep writing about after the race was over? I'd have to sign up for a marathon just to keep on point and NO THANK YOU to that. So instead, I thought I'd start a blog to follow ALL the things on my to-do list and six months later, here we are! 

OK, enough talky. It's New Year's Eve. If you are reading this you are probably either off work and Internet surfing on the couch while you wait for whatever is going to happen tonight to happen or you are like me, sitting at your desk with not much work to do, counting down until it is time to clock out and get to the end of year festivities. Either way, today is not for reading a novel. 

So, I now present to you, Sheridan's To-Do List: 2014. A Year in Pictures...

Christmas and holidays 2013

This time last year... we will be seeing these guys tonight!

Tom gets so jolly around the holidays





















A LONG WINTER WITH LOTS OF SNOW

So we played board games at work

And took pictures of each other

















And took pajama selfies











And made new friends




















But spring brought warm weather and lots of excitement

My thesis accepted!
I am now Master Sheridan! (and that is Master Alberto)






















Proof! 


Had a "sexy" bridal shower

And an even sexier bachelorette party





















What bachelorette party is complete without
a purple dragon boat ride?


















...right after enjoying a lovely Jim's cheesesteak




Fulfilled a teenage dream and saw Mindless Self Indulgence




















And a lot of training in between...


How I feel after every workout

They make it look so easy

Just a warm-up

But it all paid off on May 4th at the Broad Street Run! 

Tom looking excited for the race


Pre-Broad Street Race with my homies

And we did it! 10 miles, no sweat

So after all that, we thought we might do something relaxing. Like, you know, get married!

Keeping calm on my wedding day with the help
of the best bridesmaids ever

Last minute details
Across town, Tom was looking not the least bit nervous
And why should he be?
Friends helping friends




Happy family






















And time for a quick Facebook picture














Married by some of our best friends!

Time for a quick ride





And we will live happily ever after












Or else!















We then jetted off to Europe for a romantic honeymoon

Don't Forget To Be Awesome

First to Barcelona...

The Mediterranean

Our chill day on the beach

La Sagrada Familia

Fancy dinner on the bay 
A day in Girona

With our tour guide and friend, Mireia!






















And an afternoon at Parc Guell


And then off to Paris!


Is that the Eiffel Tower?

It IS the Eiffel Tower!

Another beautiful view from our balcony

In the city of love

OK, so when we got back it was summer and time to REALLY relax and hang with our friends

Breakfast at the Main Street Diner in Lansdale with Quinn and Mo

Family 4th of July party with my cousin Evan

Worst. Service. Ever. Just kidding, Wayne!

Best root beer float from Stuart's

Tom and Anthony trying (failing) to not be geeky

Ric with a special gift hand delivered from Spain

And Ric getting dunked by his lovely Mirabai

Ava having a little wife cake

The New York crew on our way to dim sum




And the Legal crew trying to run a 5K

And getting down poured on

So we got beer instead





A Phillies game, of course
And the Dark Side of Oz

Went to my first Broadway show, Hedwig! Starring Neil Patrick Harris, what an introduction to theater, darling...

NPH, you vixen

A Tony award winning musical!

Best day ever, well, besides the wedding 

Time for a quick photo shoot

Looking cool and disinterested

Smiles after freaking out the middle age ladies in the bathroom

My treasured souvenir

The only picture I took inside. Shhhh


And the mixing board where our friend Justin makes the magic happen
We got to witness our friends Eric and Rachael make their leap into married life


Sadly, I have no pictures of the happy couple

Well, there is THIS happy couple

We took Tom's dad's convertible. It was stylish

And we danced the night away

After a rousing game of skipping stones.
Who knew Tom could skip stones like a champ?

He's so sexy

We cooked (and ate) a lot of great food this year

Spaghetti is always a winner

Lots of fresh vegetables

Some kind of fish

Summer berries

Fruit and yogurt parfaits

And the standard PBJ

Strawberry, spinach and goat cheese salad

Fish tacos 

Cookies of some sort

My first homemade mac and cheese

And mac and cheese stuffed peppers

Our one month anniversary dinner

Poolside BBQs

Turkey clubs and homemade potato salad

Smoothies FTW

A whole bunch of avocado

Dim sum

It was something else!

Talluto's, our favorite Italian market

A proud chicken

Why we roasted a chicken in the summer? Who knows

Our new pizza stone!

Almost a win. We need practice

We even grew some of our own food

More chicken?

A festive cheese stuffed tree

Oreo popcorn bark

And totally addictive gingerbread cheesecake dip
In between all the friends and cooking and eating and marrying and traveling, we also had to say goodbye to our old apartment

J-305

Empty as the day after we got engaged

Our balcony 
And said hello to our house!

Inadvertently set up just like our apartment was

But with a better paint job

It took a lot of paint

And right after all that craziness, I started a new job!

Me on my daily walk

The giant office where I now work

My official name badge

And my silly co-workers

Didn't I leave this one at the last office?

After all the mayhem of the year, we celebrated with a real Christmas tree 



And more friends and celebrations

Partying with the EMS staff

Trying to make Dev look presentable for a picture.
We failed. 

But we finally got to see Tran Siberian Orchestra

And had a pretty decent Christmas party at our new house
With Christmas mojitos

I even got to chill in Santa's sleigh

Whoo! What a crazy year it's been! It's a good thing I don't take more pictures than I already do or we'd be here until 2016 catching up on all that has happened. 

At the beginning of the year I said to someone that I thought this might just be MY year. I don't think anyone can disagree that I was most certainly correct. Just one more time, because the year is almost gone and it won't ever be 2014 again, the year of Sheridan, let's recap:

- graduated with my Master's
- ran a 10 mile race
- got married
- went to Europe
- started this awesome blog!
- watched two of our good friends get married
- spent lots of great time with friends and family, including my nephew who I hadn't seen in years before this year
- went to my first Broadway show, which just happened to star NPH and be about an awesome transgender wannabe rock star from East Berlin
- went to see Mindless Self Indulgence and Post Modern Jukebox, featuring our good friend and officiant, Ric Becker!
- bought a house
- got a new job, a writing job!
- threw our first (of many, hopefully) kick ass Christmas party
- didn't go completely crazy during all the craziness

Given all that I accomplished this year, I think I will give myself a pass on today's to-do list. Tonight, I'm going to ring in the new year surrounded by great friends, my insanely awesome husband and lots of good vibes and music. Tomorrow, we are going to chill on the couch and play some video games to get 2015 off to a nice easy start. Maybe order Chinese food. 

For now, I can safely say...

2014 = dominated

See you in 2015! 





Tuesday, December 23, 2014

I'll Be Home For Christmas



It's almost Christmas and for the first time in years I am actually working LESS over the next few weeks. When you work in the restaurant or retail industry, Christmas season is bittersweet in a lot of ways. On one hand, it's busier and there are more shifts available to work. On the other hand, it's busier and there are more shifts available to work. I see my old co-workers addressing this paradox on Facebook and I can say that while I do miss the hustle of the holiday crowd, I don't miss missing out on the seasonal festivities.

Like getting to take our nieces and nephew to
the Macy's light show in Philly

Weekends are non-existent when you work in a restaurant, ESPECIALLY around the holidays. You need to really pick and choose which Christmas party (parties, if you're lucky) you want to attend because you aren't likely to get all the weekends off you want. In fact, in only just struck me that I've been to three Christmas parties this year alone and I can't remember ANY in the last few years. Granted, we threw one of the parties, but still.



Christmas parties everywhere! 
Photo booth fun from Tom's office Christmas party





















This is our first Christmas in our new house AND my first Christmas working in an office. It's kind of like being back in school. I'm sitting at a desk all day, counting down until work lets out tomorrow evening and I don't have to go back for five days. There is both less and more work to do at the same time, but everyone is a little happier, a little chattier and there are snacks everywhere you look.


There are Calvin and Hobbes snow themed comics all around
my office.

I get to pass these on my way to the restroom!

Really puts you in the holiday spirit











































Almost as much as getting a "Gingerdead man"
from Scott at the office






















Last week the office even invited Santa to come in! He was there on Saturday so I didn't get a chance to see what my odds were of coming in on the Nice list this year. I actually wanted to ask him about that. Do Tom and I file together this year? Since we're married, does our Naughty and Nice get combined? Maybe we are in a different gift bracket? Oh well, I will have to ask next year. I did get a chance to chill in his sleigh, though.



Santa's office
My cheerful lunch break





At our house we busied ourselves over the last few weeks getting ready for Christmas and our first party at our house. We finally got to get a real tree! We were so excited to get our tree, in fact, that we braved the elements and bought our tree during a literal down pour. It was freezing and wet but we got a tree! The perfect one, too; short and fat and fits perfectly in our small living room.


The helpful Home Depot dude spent ten minutes
getting soaked trying to help us secure our
tree to our little car
But we made it home with the tree intact!








And now it looks like it always belonged there














                               





















I even got Tom to set up my Dicken's Village collection. I've been collecting these things for years and never took them out of the box before. Some of the boxes had several centimeters of dust on them. Centimeters doesn't sound like much, but when you're sneezing over a bunch of old boxes, every centimeter counts.


They look pretty nice
Good job, Tom!










 Adding to the fun of getting ready for Christmas was the stress of getting ready to host our housewarming / Christmas party. As former service staff and enthusiastic party hosters, we naturally bought way too much food, tried far too many new recipes and started doing everything (cleaning included) far too late. I think I slept less than ten hours that weekend, from Friday to Monday morning. On the plus side, I think we had a pretty good party all in all.


Snacks beneath my requisite Advent calendar
Supplied every year by my godmother

Only the very beginning of our ambitious party menu

 In an effort to keep everyone entertained, we set up a few things to do in each room. In our guest room, we set up a video camera for people to leave us messages. My friend Dana's daughter, Kylie, turned it into her interview station. She was quite the pro at working the camcorder as well as working the crowd. On my to-do list is definitely to get that video edited down so I can share it with you. Actually, I'm excited to see it myself!

Another station was our Christmas card station. Just in case anyone wanted to send a well wish or a Merry Christmas to someone. A few people had fun with it, but of course, how many people's addresses do you know off the top of your head?



I thought it was a cute idea


Like any good holiday party we had wayyyyy too much food. Including an abundance of cheese. One of our friends saw our morning to-do list (with all the last minute cooking we should have done the night before) and exclaimed how great it was that we had not one, but two different "cheese breads" on there. Both cheese breads came out pretty awesome, but how could they not? What is better than cheese and bread?



This was cheese bread #1. Also, I would call it
a Pinterest win!
The rainbow cheese at Wegman's looked too
pretty to resist

Our signature cocktail: Christmas Mojitos




The best champagne mustard dip you've ever tasted
Recipe courtesy of Mama Riz


And I did consult Pinterest quite a lot on this holiday venture. You can find my board here: http://www.pinterest.com/sherideez/christmas-party/ I didn't get to do all the recipes, but all the ones I did were pretty good.




Gingerbread cheesecake dip was super easy and really delicious.
It's pretty rich, so your probably don't need to double the
recipe like we thought we did. My office was happy to have the
leftovers, though.
Oreo popcorn bark was a huge hit! I'm making gift bags
of this stuff to give out next year.


 There were a few Pinterest fails along the way...




I wanted the chocolate fountain to work so badly.
It did not.
It did make for an interesting conversation piece.
These also looked quite different on Pinterest.

But no matter. The food was delicious if not beautiful, the friends were plentiful if not... haha, just kidding! Good times were had by all that came and we were so happy to get to see so many of our friends and family in one day. In fact, we had an extra visitor we weren't expecting...


Blurry Santa on a fire truck!

It was a great party and I have to thank my friends that came early to help us set up. There is literally no way we would have gotten my optimistic menu all put together so nicely if not for you guys. I might have been curled up on the kitchen floor, covered in gingerbread cheesecake dip and sprinkles, crying that we couldn't possibly have enough cheese. Instead, the party went off without a hitch. It was busy, but fun to host and we got to chill out with Tom's kindergarten crew, who are amazingly just as good of friends today as they were back in the sandbox. Wait, did we have sandboxes in kindergarten?


You can't take Dev anywhere

Say kimchi! 

 That party was over a week ago now and we are STILL cleaning up from it. Between work and going to other Christmas fun things, cleaning and organizing just doesn't compete on the to-do list. Tonight we finally got the kitchen more or less put back together, although we still have extra bags of chips and pretzels and candy that I don't even know where to put. If you are having a party and need some supplies, check with us! We might be able to donate a few things in exchange for an invitation.

Tonight at 6:30, I get to leave work and not return for five whole days. It's crazy! I won't even know what to do with myself. Well, maybe I do. Tomorrow night, Tom and I will go to Tran Siberian Orchestra, a show we walked out on two years ago when we were overly excited from getting engaged an hour before and just had to go shout it from the rooftops. We got free tickets and that makes me so happy about walking out on the show (and the money we dropped on the not-so-cheap tickets) before.

Finally get to see this dude go crazy on the violin
The reason we didn't see him before



Christmas Eve will be spent doing my last minute Christmas shopping. No, seriously, MOST of my Christmas shopping. Kinda dropped the ball on that one this year. But by the grace of old St. Nick, it will be done. Then I will help cook and clean at one more holiday party, my mom's annual Christmas Eve party. Christmas day will be spent bouncing back and forth between our parents' houses, our own house for Christmas movies and Lai Lai Garden for a Chinese Christmas duck. After that, I will be asleep for the rest of the weekend thankyouverymuch.

My to-do list consists mainly of shopping and wrapping these last minute gifts that really shouldn't have been last minute. What do you usually do the few days leading up to Christmas? Are you as unorganized as I am? Or are you all shopped and wrapped by mid-October and now you can relax and actually chill during the holiday frenzy?

Whatever you do these next few days, I hope you get to spend at least a little time with some friends or family. And if you don't, at least know they are thinking about you. And, hey, if you have nothing better to do, my mom's house is always open Christmas Eve!

And now I leave you with the gift left to us by Tom's friends after our party. Merry Christmas everyone!



Poor guy didn't stand a chance